Way things are for most people going out should be a productive social event. There is nothing wrong with indulgence but why not make it count with style. Don’t go out a lone, go out with a good party, or to one. Socializing is one of the best ways to get ahead; you can meet people, talk, and get an idea of what people are up to, good or bad.
You can see how the particular location is setup and what attracted people there or not. How people are dressed, and what’s making everyone go around. Explore multiple age groups, opinions on things vary greatly from age. If you are working on something, it could be a good way to promote it and get a feedback hopefully.
So I don’t mean that you should be all about business. It’s just as important to have fun and show it; that displays confidence and a sense of style. So be yourself!
Every now and then make an effort to find yourself in a good party or two, it more worth it than you think. Or you may just throw one yourself!